A good buddy of mine sent me this:
I laughed my ass off because that is the epic classic example of what probably 95% of all dumb chicks assume as they go through life and hope to meet Mr. Perfect With Shitloads of Money while they focus on beauty and not brains. You can’t fix stupid, Ron White once said.
I’m very, very blessed and grateful that my own wife is the complete opposite of that. She was the one who told me I was nuts for using my credit cards and getting into debt, while she has always used cash. It was ME who told her to spend a good sized chunk of her savings on a down payment on that Gas Guzzler truck we had last year. Boy am I lucky to have such a smart woman as the power behind the throne.
Touching upon this dumb chick’s subject, “college really isn’t necessary”; I do have to concur with her — to a point. I went to college myself, and graduated a community college with Honors and obtained two degrees — an AA and an AS in Computer Information Systems. What happened afterwards was what I call a huge mistake and a waste of time. I transferred to Cal Poly Pomona, didn’t like it, then transferred to Cal State San Bernardino. By the time I went to CSUSB, I was already earning good cash on the side from my fledgling consulting business. When I sat in a class that was literally called “How to build and maintain your own computer”, I had had enough. I simply stopped going to classes and ultimately dropped out.
Like a sheep in the great flock of sheeps, I thought the best path to success in life was to get as high of an educational degree as I possibly could. I even had aspirations of obtaining a Masters in something and/or an MBA. I thought I was going to be like my Dad, a drone in a corporation that gets nice vacation times, a big fat Christmas bonus, and a steady salaried paycheck. Little did I know that I was going to be doing the total opposite of that — be my own boss and own and operate my own businesses. I became an entrepreneur and for that, you certainly don’t need a college education. Look at Bill Gates, or even Mark Zuckerberg and realize that these guys are multi-billionaires and are college dropouts. While one may argue that they did get some sort of education at their college, they still did not graduate and get that piece of paper that supposedly “guarantees career jobs”.
I do admit that I am partially successful in business due to some courses I took in my community college. I took courses like business law, which prepared me immensely for all the contracts I have written between clients and myself, and accounting, which helped me learn bookkeeping as I use QuickBooks daily in my business and without basic knowledge of accounting, I would probably be wasting money every month to have to pay someone else to do it all for me, or I would do such a crappy job at it, that my CPA would hate me. Aside from these business prep courses I took, I also took a lot of other courses that ultimately ended up being a complete waste of time. I took more and more general education courses and even most of the IT-related courses were a waste of time since I had learned all the technical stuff on my own.
As a result of my own college experience, and from looking at the world around me, I ultimately feel college is an absolute waste of time, unless you want to be a professional in the areas of medical, law, or some other super-skilled craft that actually requires a university environment to open your skull up and pour your brain with mountains of knowledge on the field. For everything else though — especially all forms of doing business – you really don’t need a college education. You just need to work hard, use the Internet as your source of education, library, and read read read, as well as gain some hands on experience by freelancing as an intern or apprentice with someone. If I were to hire a tech, I would not hire the guy that came fresh out of college. I would hire the guy that has 2+ years of REAL experience doing tech stuff. To me, this guy is way more valuable than the textbook college student guy because for myself, I didn’t really learn as much in CIS courses than I did in actual real hands-on experience.
It saddens me when I see the parking lot of a local college always being full. This isn’t even your traditional state university or community college. It’s a corporation that has programs designed to get you in and out of there in 10 months or less. They teach people things like pharmaceuticals, dental assistance, massage therapy, and other related “medical” fields. I just know that they people are financing their way through this type of college. If you have to finance your college education, be smart about it. Apply everywhere for scholarships and try everything you can to avoid student loan debt. I was fortunate to have financing for my college education by my parents whom worked at employers who provided this as an employee benefit. My brother had this advantage too and was able to graduate with a BS in business/human resources. However, if I had to pay for it out of my own pocket, I would not have done it because student loan debt is a horrible trap. How shitty is it to have to finance your college education, then when you get done with it and go into your job, you have to work towards paying this debt down in 10, 15, 20 years? Of course you can pay it down faster, like this guy did, but still!
